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Somatic Sex Therapy in Chicago • Illinois • Colorado

Helen Wyatt, LMFT, CST

Expertly guided recovery, repair and support for couples, individual adults, polycules, creatives & performers, healers & healthcare professionals.

Some concerns need experiential healing

You've tried to think your way through the problem, and you’ve maybe even talked it to death by this point. Your relationship with sex and intimacy feels disconnected, tender, frustrating, or shameful.You understand yourself and what feels good about sex - or at least what should feel good - but something still feels stuck: in your body, in your relationship, in the gap between who you know you are and how you actually show up with others. I'm Helen Wyatt, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in Chicago. I support individuals, couples, and relationship systems using Somatic Experiencing®, Emotion Focused Therapy, and sex therapy modalities to help you heal from the inside out. I want you to experience sex that feels connected, erotic, safe, and alive.

In therapy, you will…

Two people in sex therapy in Chicago, connecting with Helen Wyatt
  • Develop a deeper understanding of who you are erotically and in relationship - how you move toward others, where you pull away, and what protective strategies you utilize to navigate connection and survive though past, current, or future hardship

  • Build your capacity to stay present with your own emotions and the emotions of others, even during moments of tension, conflict, hurt, or overwhelm

  • Learn to communicate from a place of emotional honesty and care, rather than defensiveness, softening, intellectualization, or competition

  • Gently disrupt cycles of shame and blame that keep you and your relationships stuck

  • Repair and heal relational and attachment wounds, as well as the patterns that continue to repeat in your relationships

  • Learn to experience healthy sexuality and sexual safety

  • Surf frustrating sexual urges and experience new forms of regulation

  • Expand your ability to be relational with others, which honors both fulfilling connection and a grounded sense of self, rather than defaulting to isolation or over-accommodation

  • Reconnect with what makes you feel most erotic and alive, and begin to move toward that aliveness within yourself and in your relationships

Helen Wyatt, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist in Chicago, smiling and offering sex therapy, somatic therapy, and performing artist coaching in Chicago and Colorado

I want to help you heal from the inside out.

Therapeutic change happens in all sorts of ways. The long-lasting, sustainable change I gently and expertly guide couples and individuals through involves both being connected to your bodily, sensory, and emotional experiences while also engaging and healing relationally with your beloved others. Whether we are working on healing your experiences of betrayal or conflict, supporting your relationship with sexuality, or learning to develop your body as an instrument to its most dynamic state for stage performance, you benefit from learning to be in more loving relationships, learning nervous system care, and exploring your Self in a supportive, consistent way.

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist serving clients in Chicago, Illinois and Colorado. I am an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and I am trained in Somatic Experiencing® (Beginning II complete). My approach integrates Somatic Experiencing Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment science, and neuroscience to support meaningful, sustainable change. Clients describe therapy with me as engaging, challenging, inspiring, and very supportive. Therapy is thoughtful, creative, direct, and intentionally paced - grounded in both psychological science and creating a lived, embodied experience of change.

I regard myself as a consultant, educator, supporter, and process facilitator. I want you to feel gently, expertly guided and supported in your growth and discovery process as we work with what matters most: knowing your Self and relating well to your beloved others.

In addition to being an LMFT, CST and somatic psychotherapist, I have experience as a professional actor, opera singer and classical musician, voice teacher, and educator. I am genuinely honored to be in relationship with my clients, and I learn new things from them and for them every day. I believe in the human responsibilities of self-inquiry, self-reflection and self-realization, and I actively do this work of therapy, growth and healing myself. Many of my clients are creatives, value the body’s significance in mental healthcare, love to learn, value gentle accountability, and are interested in self exploration and creating more loving, attuned relationships.

Two people in couples therapy in Chicago, holding hands after therapy with Helen Wyatt

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist - Illinois

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist - Colorado

Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT)

Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (Beginning II Complete - SEI)

Intimacy Professional Accelerator Program (IDC)

Meisner Training Levels 1-5 | The Green Shirt Studio | Chicago

Professional Credentials

Education

Adler University | Master of Arts in Couple & Family Therapy

Roosevelt University | Professional Diploma in voice & Opera Performance

Roosevelt University | Master of Music in voice & Opera Performance

Cleveland Institute of Music | Bachelor of Music in Voice Performance

Clinical Frameworks

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